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For people with a clitoris or a vagina, this is how to achieve an orgasm on your own terms. But we forget that on the screens, especially the small ones pornography , an orgasm is often performative. They can visibly ejaculate. Sex and relationship expert Dr. When asked to describe orgasm, the responses vary wildly.
One-third to two-thirds of women have faked orgasms, in fact, according to this study. However, there are many reasons why women do this… and not all of them have to do with the amount of pleasure you're giving her. So today, I want to show you how to tell if a woman is having a real orgasm—and what you can do about it if she isn't.
Hear what female pleasure really sounds like by listening to orgasms recorded by women like you, who are willing to remove the taboos imposed by society and by ourselves. Bijoux Indiscrets, the brand of erotic products made by and for women, in an effort to show the full gamut of female sexuality, has conducted a study to determine how fiction conditions our desires, expectations and sexual behaviour. To help to change these ideas it has created the Orgasm Library of Real Sounds , showing the way that female pleasure, your pleasure, really sounds.