This answer is really interesting! It is true that sex can be lots of work for guys, but I just hadn't thought of that too much I don't see the problem you have with my answer. Your confusing answer seems to agree with me that vaginal sex is more enjoyable than a bj. I've written nothing to be considered as 'rotten'. Well, there are girls out there who want nothing more than a nice in their bellies. So to be so assured that vaginal is the best way to go is a little limited and self-centered.

A good blowjob truly is better than sex
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For one, blowjobs are work. They are not some frivolous, mindless act; they require concentration, skill and patience. I mean, what's in it for me? I'm far more likely to jump in the sack with you than I am to get on my knees -- mainly because I'd rather actually have a shot at an orgasm. I'd rather pick up a hottie at the bar, throw a condom on him and BAM, get it in and be finished with the whole thing. I know that oral sex doesn't happen only between a man and a woman. I'm not trying to be awkward and weird with my heteronormativity.
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Page 1 of 2 1 2 Last Jump to page: Results 1 to 30 of Thread: A good blowjob truly is better than sex. A good blowjob truly is better than sex Nothing beats a LONG blowjob, from a submissive girl that you can tell her exactly what to do, when to stop so you dont cum, when to bite balls, just use the hand to rest, etc. A good 30 minute blowjob while you just relax and finger her ass. Just came buckets srs, gym parking lot lol. The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time.
Then I Google it and, after reading through the first ten articles, I am disappointed with humanity. Or because it means he gets to momentarily feel powerful. Or because he sees it as payback for all of the things he does for you on a day to day basis yes, these are ALL things that I found in the top search matches. So, without further ado, here are the three biggest reasons that men love blowjobs… with a few direct quotes from some of my male coaching clients whom I emailed for their input sprinkled throughout. Time and time again, the guys that I asked about what it was that they loved about blowjobs told me that it was about feeling deeply accepted by their partner. There are few more intimate acts in the world than receiving oral sex from your lover.